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Since the release of her self-published book Hablare—I Will Speak, Janine Lefebvre has received countless messages from readers moved by her courage and the sincerity of her story. Each message echoes the same truth underlining the importance of “giving voice” to pain.

This collection of deeply personal writings, penned each day following  the suicide of her son Charles in 2008, was never meant to be published. “I wrote to survive,” she simply says.

A Life-Changing Encounter

Beginning in 2020, heartfelt conversations with Pamphile Guigonou Akplogan, Ph.D., a friend of Benin she met through the spiritual movement Les Amis de Maurice Zundel, gradually transformed her private writing into an act of shared healing. “No one had ever read it—not my husband, not even my children,” Janine recalls.

Pamphile was the first. Deeply moved by what he read, he saw in her journal a light that could help other parents or loved ones facing the same kind of loss.

For three years, he gently encouraged her to make her words public — “to support, through meditation and reflection, parents and others coping with the suicide of a child or a loved one.”

From Grief to Sharing

It wasn’t until a pivotal meeting—a support group led by Pamphile for people living with mental health challenges—that Janine finally agreed.

“I remember there were four or five people who had attempted suicide in the group. A few days later, I gave Pamphile my approval, and he took care of everything,” she recounts.

Revisiting her own words years later proved painful but essential. “It was a difficult step … but a necessary one,” she admits.

Janine Lefebvre

The Healing Power of Words

The book’s launch, held at Manoir Ellice in Beauharnois, drew a full house and heartfelt responses. Many testimonies confirmed what Pamphile had told her from the beginning: “You have nothing to be ashamed of.”

Through this experience, Janine came to realize how deeply the taboo around suicide runs—and how heavy the silence can be. “I think everyone, in one way or another, has been touched by suicide,” she reflects.

A Journey of Faith and Transformation

Hablare—I Will Speak is more than a story of loss—it is a testimony of life, faith, and inner transformation.

“I received great graces during that time. It doesn’t erase the pain, but it expands your experience of life. In the end, I wrote about how I was immersed in something greater that sustained me.”

Janine also speaks in her book about her deep connection with the Sisters of the Holy Names of Jesus and Mary (SNJM) and how her journey as an SNJM Associate has nurtured her reflection and resilience.

 

And Now, a New Chapter…

Encouraged by the touching feedback, Janine is preparing a second edition with additional reflections and photographs. Friends have even approached publishers to help bring this next version to life. But for her, the initial purpose remains unchanged:  “To open hearts, broaden horizons, and bring comfort.”

Her book begins with a quote by Lytta Basset, included in the preface by Pamphile—a passage that beautifully captures the essence of her journey:

“If we allow it, the death of a loved one introduces us to that inner realm where everything begins to speak to us, even our own bodies. It is as though every reality of this world, every particle of our being, is doubled by an invisible side—vibrating with inexhaustible meaning.”

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On Sunday, November 2, the halls of Maison Jésus-Marie (MJM) were filled with the rich sounds of a seven-string classical guitar, thanks to the talent of Michel Beauchamp, nephew of Sr. Marthe-Gisèle Beauchamp.

Under the theme “Four Masterpieces for Classical Guitar”, the artist delivered a recital that was both inspiring and eclectic. The carefully curated program invited the audience to rediscover iconic works by Bach, Fernando Sor, Francisco Tárrega, and Heitor Villa-Lobos. Pieces such as Prelude in D Minor (BWV 999) and Lágrima resonated with grace — combining virtuosity, emotion, and subtlety.

The audience was delighted:

  • by the rarity of the seven-string instrument
  • by the diversity of styles and eras
  • and by the joy of welcoming a musician closely connected to the SNJM family

This recital is part of the long-standing commitment of the Sisters of the Holy Names of Jesus and Mary (SNJM) to the arts and education. Let us recall that they founded the Vincent-d’Indy School of Music — a renowned institution that has nurtured many successful musical careers, both in Canada and internationally.

At MJM, this mission continues today by welcoming artists from all walks of life — from seasoned musicians to emerging talents — who find here a warm stage and an attentive audience.

🎶 A beautiful way to celebrate the power of classical music, preserve artistic heritage, and further the SNJM cultural mission.

Photo report: Sr. Suzanne Brault

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Affiliates of the  Sisters of the Holy Names of Jesus and Mary (SNJM) left Longueuil with hearts full of joy and inspiration after experiencing a memorable pilgrimage from October 10 to 13, 2025.

The chosen format permitted the 16 participants from Manitoba and the United States  to share in a rhythm of discovery, heartfelt conversations, and spiritual moments. Staying at Maison Jésus-Marie (MJM), they also had the opportunity to connect with the SNJM residents in an atmosphere of hospitality and simplicity.

“We experienced real magic in our encounters with the SNJM Sisters at Maison Jésus-Marie,” shared Geneviève Noël, Affiliate, and a member of the organizing committee. “The Sisters warmly welcome us and we shared beautiful moments with them.”

More Than a Pilgrimage

A stop in Saint-Antoine-sur-Richelieu, the birthplace of Mother Marie-Rose.

The journey of visiting the sites linked to Marie-Rose Durocher and the early days of the Congregation was deeply human and spiritual.

“This weekend helped us get to know one another, build bonds, and recognize shared affinities,” Geneviève said.

Inspired by pioneering women like Eulalie, and Jeanne Mance and Marguerite Bourgeoys who came before her, the participants explored concrete ways of living out the SNJM mission today.

“We are striving to carry forward the SNJM values despite family responsibilities and cultural differences,” Geneviève explained. “We even dreamed of coordinated symbolic actions we could take at the same time, wherever we are in the world.”

A Rich Journey of Heritage and Reflection

The pilgrimage began Friday evening with a warm welcome and opening ritual, setting the tone for a spiritually rich experience.

On Saturday, the group headed to the Richelieu River, where it all began for Eulalie Durocher. The first stop was at the commemorative tree planted on the founding site in Longueuil to mark the 200th anniversary of her birth.

The day continued with visits to Eulalie’s birthplace in Saint-Antoine-sur-Richelieu,  including a stop at the church and family memorial; Beloeil – where she served for 12 years, and a reflective pause at Lake Hertel, following a delightful lunch at Vergers Petit in Mont-Saint-Hilaire.

Sunday’s focus was the SNJM heritage site: the  Foundation House, the Congregation House with its historical rooms and chapel, and the cemetery — a moving experience, especially for those familiar with the location.

The afternoon included visits to the Co-cathedral museum, Chapelle Marie-Rose, and the SNJM archives, offering a rich historical perspective.

The day ended on a sweet note when some of the Quebec Affiliates joined the participants  for a delicious  dessert spread.

On Monday, a river shuttle to Old Montreal led to more discoveries, including the Marguerite Bourgeoys Museum and Notre-Dame Basilica. Rituals, shared meals, and moments of quiet rounded out this full and meaningful program.

An Experience Worth Sharing

“The SNJM Sisters have always been educators in their communities, regardless of their specific mission. The opportunity to carry that torch is very real for us too,” Geneviève concluded.

The energy and enthusiasm of the participants point toward a promising future — with hopes to offer similar experiences to other groups in the coming years. A pilgrimage that opens the heart, the mind, and the path forward…

Sr. Mary Haupt, Sr. Michelle Garlinski, Yasmine Matar (Affiliate), and Geneviève Noël formed the organizing team behind this uplifting event.

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The 6th edition of the World March of Women will be held under the theme “Still on the Move to Transform the World.” This powerful call to action reaffirms the ongoing importance of fighting for justice and equality for all.

The main gathering will take place in Québec City on Saturday, October 18, 2025, whereby participants from across the province, will converge at the National Assembly for this collective march. Meanwhile, similar actions will be held around the world, echoing a shared commitment to equality and human rights.

A Faithful and Active Presence

Since the historic “Bread and Roses March” in 1995, the Sisters of the Holy Names of Jesus and Mary (SNJM) have been steadfast participants in this movement of hope and transformation.

Sr Lise Gagnon in 1995

That year, Sr. Lise Gagnon walked from Montréal to Québec alongside thousands of women, supported by a delegation of four other SNJM Sisters. Since then, the Congregation has taken part in every edition — 2000, 2005, 2010, 2015, and 2021 — standing in solidarity with movements for social justice and equal rights, especially those advancing women’s equality.

Sr. Claudette Bastien, snjm (right) at the home of a “courageous” village woman who welcomed walkers in 1995.

In 2015, the SNJM’s chartered a bus with about sixty participants to attend the march in Trois-Rivières. In 2021, despite the pandemic, the SNJMs joined two symbolic actions: one in Montréal, in collaboration with the Association of Women Religious for Women’s Rights (ARDF), and another in Longueuil, on their historic site, where approximately fifty people marched in solidarity.

For the 2025 edition, Sr. Lise will once again be in Québec City, joined by Sofia-Elena Ranke-Farro, partner on the SNJM Justice and Peace Committee, along with other allies, to reaffirm their ongoing commitment to women’s rights and equality for all. Delegations from various countries — including those from Africa, Europe, and Latin America — will also be present.

Walking Is Acting

The SNJM participation in the World March of Women is part of their ongoing mission to promote social justice, human dignity, and equality.

To walk is to act — to take a concrete step of solidarity and hope. And for the SNJMs, it remains a living expression of their enduring mission: walking together to transform the world.

 

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Under the inspiring theme “Abiding in Hope, we move forward together,” the Sisters of the Holy Names of Jesus and Mary (SNJM) and some associates enthusiastically gathered at Maison Jésus-Marie (MJM) on Saturday, October 4, for their annual provincial meeting, organized by the Quebec Leadership Team.

A Time of Welcome and Reflection

The day began with a warm welcome by Sr. Lisette Boulé, followed by an uplifting song by Robert Lebel’s Prenons la route ensemble (Let Us Take the Road Together) by Robert Lebel.

Sr. Denise Riel, Provincial Animator, then invited participants to take time for a deep reflection on the theme of the year. She situated this gathering within the broader context of the Congregation — founded in 1843 by Blessed Marie-Rose Durocher — as it prepares for its 36th General Chapter in 2026.

Moving Forward Amid Uncertainty

Acknowledging the shadows and challenges of today’s world, Sr. Denise shared a message filled with faith and hope:

“Moving forward together means trusting in who we have become — women rooted in our cultural identity and at the same time open to the world.”

Drawing on the transformative experiences already lived by the Sisters and associates in Quebec, she reminded everyone that in a world weakened by conflict and division, the mission of the SNJMs remains as vital as ever: to be witnesses of hope.

Sharing, Listening, and Renewed Commitment

Sr. Lise Bluteau

Small-group discussions gave each participant the opportunity to share their reflections and enrich the collective dialogue. The sharing time concluded with a plenary session marked by attentive listening and solidarity.

Following this, Sr. Lise Bluteau explained the process for electing the delegates who will attend the upcoming General Chapter of the SNJM. Sr. Claudette Bastien then led a meaningful community celebration, during which the three members of the Leadership Team renewed their commitment until the end of their mandate in July 2026.

A Gathering Filled with Joy

The day ended in a warm and joyful atmosphere, as everyone shared refreshments and continued their conversations informally. Some even took the time to visit those on other floors who had followed the meeting via closed-circuit broadcast.

Once again, this annual gathering reflected the vitality, unity, and enduring hope that continue to animate the SNJM community and their associates in Quebec.

Photos credit: Sr. Suzanne Brault

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On September 21, the chapel of Maison Jésus-Marie (MJM) came alive with music, emotion, and talent as a trio of accomplished musicians—Tomoko Inui (piano), Frédéric Bednarz (violin), and Julie Dessureault (cello)—presented a remarkable performance.

Throughout the year, MJM continues a cherished tradition: providing a vibrant stage for both renowned musicians and emerging artists. The chapel also welcomes choirs of all ages, making it a true gathering place where the arts and community harmoniously come together.

For this season-opening concert, the trio presented a deeply moving program featuring selected works by Mozart, Brahms, and Shostakovich:

  • Mozart, Trio No. 564 in G Major
  • Brahms, Trio No. 3, Op. 101
  • Shostakovich, Trio No. 2, Op. 67-2

Their sensitive and energetic interpretations captivated the audience—composed of SNJM Sisters and guests—who were delighted by the richness and quality of the performance.

The concert held special meaning for many of the Sisters, themselves former music teachers who, for decades, have taught hundreds of students in SNJM schools. These musical gatherings often become touching moments of reunion between former students and their mentors, united once more by a shared passion for music.

Following the performance, the musicians chatted with the audience and enjoyed refreshments in a warm and friendly atmosphere—a perfect way to extend the magic of this moment where, once again, music brought hearts together.

Photos credit: Tomoko Inui

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On September 12, Maison Jésus-Marie (MJM) was filled with emotion and gratitude as the Sisters of the Holy Names of Jesus and Mary (SNJM) gathered to celebrate their 2025 jubilarians under the inspiring theme: “His Love is Eternal.”

This gathering highlighted the journey of faith and commitment of twenty Sisters, celebrating 60, 70 and 75 years of consecrated life, and one Associate marking 25 years of commitment.

A tribute filled with gratitude

Sister Claudette Bastien who animated the event, paid tribute to these women who, throughout their lives, actualized their God-given gifts through their mission to the Church and society.

“Dear Jubilarians, you have become witnesses of hope for our world. Please accept our gratitude.”

A joyful community celebration

Abbé Gilles Fontaine and Mgr Claude Hamelin

The Eucharistic celebration was presided over by Bishop Claude Hamelin, Bishop of the Diocese of Saint-Jean—Longueuil, who knows the SNJMs very well from his time as a pastoral agent at Collège Durocher—Saint-Lambert. His joy at seeing familiar faces and personally greeting the jubilarians was heartfelt. Father Gilles Fontaine, chaplain at MJM, also took part in this important event.

Mrs. Gabrielle Tessier

One of the highlights of the Mass was the renewal of vows by the Sisters, and the renewal of promises by our Associate, a moving gesture that recalled the fidelity and depth of their commitment. The musical accompaniment, provided by Ms. Gabrielle Tessier, organist at the co-cathedral, greatly enhanced the liturgy. She is a former student of Sister Monique Pomerleau (one of the jubilarians) when she taught organ at the Vincent-d’Indy School of Music.

A gathering filled with joy

 

Following the Liturgy, the celebration continued with delicious refreshments in a joyous and convivial atmosphere. The exchange of congratulatory wishes, shared anecdotes, and the joy of being together made this gathering a moment rich in warmth and mutual appreciation.

A carefully prepared gathering

As every year, this celebration was made possible thanks to the dedication of an organizing committee comprised this time of Sisters Jacqueline Aubry, Lisette Boulé, Lise Gendron and Simone Perras.

  • This event, always eagerly awaited, is not only to celebrate the jubilarians, but also to remind the entire community of the value of the educational, spiritual and social mission that the SNJMs continue to carry out with heart and hope.

📌 You can still send your congratulations to the jubilarians by consulting the 2025 list.

Photo credits: Sister Hélène Harvey and Mrs. Julie Tétreault, SNJM affiliate

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Mgr Claude Hamelin

On September 13, the Sisters of the Holy Names of Jesus and Mary (SNJM) at Maison Jésus-Marie (MJM) hosted the Diocesan Renewal Day, organized at the invitation of Bishop Claude Hamelin of the Diocese of Saint-Jean/Longueuil and the Diocesan Council for Consecrated Life.

Held under the theme “Pilgrims of Hope, Rejoice,” this annual gathering brought together members of religious institutes for a time of socializing, reflection, and spiritual renewal—especially meaningful in this Jubilee Year.

Inspiring Testimonies

The day was facilitated by Brother Mario Houle, f.i.c., and Ms. Francine Vincent, coordinator and head of the Diocesan Pastoral Coordination Service (SCPD). Through their reflections, they invited participants to consider their life journeys in light of the subthemes “pilgrims” and “hope”, drawing on their own spiritual paths as examples.

Mrs Francine Vincent and Brother Mario Houle, f.i.c.

Enriching Exchanges

In small group discussions, participants shared what had touched them during the presentations, exchanged on their own “personal journey” and deepened their understanding of the theme. A presentation on the Jubilee offered an opportunity to revisit its origins, history, and meaning as a time of celebration and renewal.

A Cherished Gathering

For several years now, MJM has hosted this diocesan day, known for its welcoming and inspiring atmosphere. It provides members of religious communities with a special space to build connections, nurture hope, and renew their commitment to their mission.

Photo report : Srs. Suzanne Brault and Hélène Harvey

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On Saturday, September 6, as part of the Religious Heritage Days (RHD), the activities offered by the Marie-Rose Centre at the Congregation House of the Sisters of the Holy Names of Jesus and Mary (SNJM) drew remarkable success. Even before the official opening, a line had already formed—clear proof of the public’s enthusiasm for this special event. More than 350 people took part in a day rich in encounters and discoveries.

A Popular Bazaar and a Mini-Exhibition

Visitors had the opportunity of purchasing a variety of items—vases, frames, furniture, chairs, and antiques—while also benefiting from the insights of a museologist, who explained the history and use of certain artifacts. A silent auction gave attendees the opportunity to acquire antique furniture at attractive prices.

At the same time, a mini-exhibition showcased the SNJM’s influence in the development of the arts, reminding visitors of an important facet of the Congregation’s educational and cultural heritage.

Exploring the Heritage Site

Guided by an SNJM sister, several participants enjoyed a visual presentation highlighting the site’s historic buildings, some dating back to the 18th and 19th centuries. Outdoors, under a tent, the story of Eulalie Durocher (Mother Marie-Rose), the foundress of the Congregation, was presented through drawings by Sister Annette Stewart, designed to bring this history to life for children.

Meaningful Exchanges

Beyond the scheduled activities, many visitors took the opportunity to share memories and anecdotes with the Sisters—recalling their own experiences in SNJM schools, or learning about the Congregation’s current missions. These conversations highlighted the continuity of the SNJM’s commitment, which today extends into areas such as social justice, the fight against human trafficking, support for migrants and refugees, and the promotion of integral ecology and the defense of water as a universal human right.

A Living Legacy

Although the site’s indoor spaces are no longer accessible to the public, the Marie-Rose Centre (MRC) continues its mission of transmission. It highlights the history of the Congregation, its foundress and the SNJM’s present-day commitments, which remain active in North and South America as well as in Africa.

For those who missed the event, the heritage can still be discovered through a self-guided memory trail along Saint-Charles Street East, in Longueuil. Posters with QR codes allow passersby to access stories and historical insights, available until the first snowfall.

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For many children, the start of a new school year is both exciting and a little intimidating. Again this year, the Sisters of the Holy Names of Jesus and Mary (SNJM) supported and encouraged students during this important transition. At Maison Jésus-Marie in Longueuil, the Sisters wrote nearly 400 personalized cards filled with encouraging words for children experiencing their very first school year or for those returning to the classroom.

These heartfelt messages were part of Operation Backpacks, an initiative organized during the Apple Festival by La Croisée and the Vieux-Longueuil citizens’ committee. More than a simple distribution of school supplies, this project fosters solidarity between newcomers, local families, and community organizations. It helps ensure that every child begins the school year on equal footing while also opening a door to community networks and resources.

 

Words That Carry a Mission

Marianne Daudelin with an example of the cards given to young people.

The SNJM’s participation goes far beyond a symbolic gesture. Having dedicated their lives to education and the growth of young people, the Sisters’ words hold special meaning. For many children and parents, receiving a card handwritten by a Sister feels like a warm message of encouragement from a “grandmotherly friend.”

Present at the August distribution event, Sr. Denise Riel, Provincial Animator of the SNJMs in Quebec, and Marianne Daudelin, Animator of Community Activities and Services at Maison Jésus-Marie, witnessed firsthand the joy and pride of children and families receiving their cards.

 

Solidarity That Grows

In just three years, Operation Backpacks has become a cherished community tradition. This edition brought together several partners, including L’Entraide chez nous, Le Partage Saint-François-de-Sales, La Virevolte, La Casa Bernard Hubert, and Vision Interculture. Thanks to their collaboration, nearly 700 families were able to benefit from this generous initiative, which has become a highlight of the Apple Festival—a much-anticipated community event in Longueuil.

Always on Mission

Through this simple yet meaningful gesture, the SNJMs continue to demonstrate that their mission is alive and relevant: to encourage, support, and spread hope, especially among young people. Just as they have done throughout their history, the Sisters remain committed to guiding new generations toward growth and fulfillment, while staying close to today’s families and their realities.

Photo credit: La Croisée de Longueuil (F)